Outside the context of time and space, everything that will happen, has already happened. Free Will and Choice are but an illusion.
We each have a Destiny, we each have a Fate.
Everything is the way is supposed to be. Everything happens for a reason.
We each also have a purpose, a calling, and a life contract determined before we were born, which we may or may not discover in this lifetime. If we do discover it, we come into a state of much greater Energetic Integrity and are able to manifest much greater Universal Power.
We are here to observe our lives; any sense of control is an illusion to make the experience more exciting and interesting.
We are here to enjoy the ride!